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knave:

--- Quote from: harveybirdman on April 12, 2016, 11:44:20 am ---I'll just say this, there's very little a marriage can't survive if both people are committed to it's continued existence.

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Very true.

Stick to your boundaries...work on yourself...Vent often.

I will gladly offer up the rest of the golden nuggets I learned during my separation and divorce...
Feel free to PM

Token:

--- Quote from: harveybirdman on April 12, 2016, 11:44:20 am ---I'll just say this, there's very little a marriage can't survive if both people are committed to it's continued existence.

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^^^Best post in this thread.

If you have hope of restoring the relationship, It's amazing what good counseling can do for a broken marriage.
yotsuya:

--- Quote from: Token on April 12, 2016, 12:26:02 pm ---
--- Quote from: harveybirdman on April 12, 2016, 11:44:20 am ---I'll just say this, there's very little a marriage can't survive if both people are committed to it's continued existence.

--- End quote ---

^^^Best post in this thread.

If you have hope of restoring the relationship, It's amazing what good counseling can do for a broken marriage.

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Well said by all. Marriage is something you both have to work at.

Good luck. Ed.
HanoiBoi:
I enjoy seeing the threads where members share more of 'real life', but many times the situations stay with me for a while and I carry true concern and empathy for a few days.

Thanks for sharing Ed.  I know this forum is a decent place to do so.

I don't know your history with your wife - how long you've been with her, whether you have kids I (I think no), but whatever the situation, if you love her do your best to work it out with her. 

If it's the depressants that are making her less affectionate which in turn make you unhappy, which makes her unhappy, etc., try to see what you can do to get her off of them.  Not overnight, but eventually.

Best of luck with everything.


jdbailey1206:
Harveybirdman has done an excellent job of explaining what needs to be done in a relationship.  Both sides have to work through the hard times.  It is extremely difficult when prescription drugs are involved because they can tend to cause the person taking them not act like themselves and their significant other needs to realize when to step back and not lose their composure.  Which happens.  And if it does one needs to be smart enough to take notice when they have over reacted. 

And if ties are severed no one will judge you for the actions you take.  Sometimes doing this can be healthy for both people in the relationship. 
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