Awesome guys! Thanks so much for all the help. I went to Radio Shack last night and looked at the types that were there that you had recommended. I went with the molex type ones. Since you can crimp all the wires and such, it seemed pretty easy to do. Also since there's existing wires I'm using, I didn't need to hack a ethernet, serial or VGA cable, however for future projects that definitely might come in handy! The D-sub connectors are also a nice alternative to be aware of, because I'm sure you can use some bolts to actually screw the two sides together, whereas the molex ones dont really have anything holding the male and female parts together. So the D-sub ones look more secure.
Anyway, the molex ones should suit me just fine for this particular project. Thanks for all the info which will be helpful for everything else in the future!