As one who has done this a few times, you can forget coming to any real conclusions about how to light buttons based on photos. If the photo has a pitch black background, or the area around the lighted part is heavily shaded, it's a bad indicator. On a dark night, you can see a glowing cigarette ember from a mile away. It doesn't take much to make anything appear lit in a dark room (which is also good to consider if you are going to use your cabinet primarily in a darkened environment).
The sensor in most cameras is just too sensitive to light, and will usually auto-adjust, making dim things brighter and bright things dimmer. A high quality DSLR on full manual setting, with the buttons at the same level, with normal room lighting, a tripod and no flash
might have a chance. Otherwise, get a button of each color you plan to light, jam an LED in there and come to your own conclusions.
My experience with standard nylon has been that certain colors are ok, in that you can tell that they are being lit (usually just the centers of the plungers and whatever creeps through the gap), while other don't work very well at all. Blue seems to be one of the better ones, while green....well, just forget about doing this with green

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RandyT