Again you assist!   I actually had 3 files that needed to be put in to the SysWOW64 folder,  evidently the self-install only sticks them in the System32 folder.
As a result,  Minwah's MAMERes tool now works too!
Alright... I think I am almost there...
...now to go through and stealth the OS.  I hope the instructions for XP 32 will work with XP 64.   Surely going with a black background,  changing the color of the tool bar, etc are the same...