ok, so I pulled out my analogue multimeter becuase I read the digital ones aren't that great for testing diodes...
I remove one leg from the board, then test on 1k ohm and 10 ohm....with the multimeter leads one way I get a reading...reversed I get nothing...this is on both ohm settings...sooooooo....that would mean they're actually ok wouldn't it?
Also verified the HOT is bad(still haven't replaced it yet) with analogue...
I found r219 I believe(the numbers are gone in this area but 217 and 220 are nearby and I don't see 219 anywhere else...it tests ok....still cannot find r103 and r227...although oddly I can find 102,104,226,& 228...sigh....I just suck I suppose...

also re-checked tp6 with this meter on 250vdc and reading is still incredibly low(although does not fluctuate wildly like on the digital multi-just hangs at a really low reading, which is just to say it barely moves at all)...
what else did I do.....hrmmmm.....I think I killed too many brain cells in my youth-lol...
re-checked a couple caps including c112(read somewhere that i should)...all ok...
I forgot to recheck zd101...will do that this evening after I get done being my wife's personal beotch errand boy.. ;p
what else....l109 area continuity still reads ok(although it may be worth noting that is the area in which I had to add a wire in to get continuity back between a couple of the points as mentioned earlier)...
I was also just eyeballing the flyback and didn't see any obvious breaks, melted areas, etc....
checked all the insulation areas I could find behind stuff and all seems to be still intact, etc....
I'm still aggravated about r227 specifically because I had found it at one point, and now I can't seem to locate the darn thing again...it's really driving me crazy...but I digress...
at any rate, let me know what you think, anything else I should check, etc. Thanks!
(btw sorry if I'm being a nuisance)
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I just noticed while re-checking tp6 yet again...feel pretty good that I did it correctly this time...anyways...what I noticed was that the reading does still fluctuate on the analogue it's just harder to notice as the reading is very low to begin with and the fluctuation is slight...now here's the thing I noticed that I think is important...I heard a very(and I do mean VERY)soft ticking sound coming from the flyback area(which is also where the hot is of course)...now this ticking in addition to being very soft, the ticking is very regular, and the fluctuations match the rythm perfectly...literally every time it ticks the meter will jump slightly...so would that lead us to believe it could just be the hot? Anyways, my wife is waiting for my punk butt so gotta run, but just wanted to throw that last part in before I was in disposed for the rest of the afternoon.