That's funny! The place we're going to dinner does gift cards, and to a) ensure we had the money for this weekend and b) make sure she knew we WERE doing something to celebrate, I stopped by and picked up a gift card yesterday. I've NEVER seen people outside waiting to get in (they've got a HUGE waiting room, and the bar is also pretty big), and yesterday, they were even packed outside!
It was funny, I walked in, and they took me to the back of the place to pay for everything. I'm sure people were thinking "who's this guy who just waltzes right in and they seat him without even a wait....sonova..."
I asked what the wait time was when I was leaving. TWO AND A HALF HOURS! Same thing, these folks weren't getting in until 8:30.
Unless you can get and make reservations (not "reserved seating" or some euphemistic crap like that which DOESN'T mean "reservations"), Valentine's Day and Mother's Day are the two worst days of the year to go out to eat anyplace nicer than a gussied-up diner.