And what stance is that?
1) Remove the guys in power.
Helps with that whole "kill your own people for whatever reason you dream up, like "he looked at you cross-wise" Oh, and get rid of his offspring, since they have even less concern for the people.
2) Allow the people of the region to see what it's like to have freedom
Helps with that whole "we've gotta keep doing things the old way because trying something different will get us killed....the old guy really IS still in power, so we can't cross him....that hasn't worked as long as he's in power"
3) Help them set up some way to police themselves
Helps with that whole "nothing will be done if I try to enjoy my life with my newfound freedom and someone beats the living crap out of me because their version of Allah says I'm an infidel in my own country"
4) Help them set up some way to govern themselves
Helps with that whole "we need representation to help make our country a nice place to live for all the people, not just the ones the former mad dictator hated less than the others"
5) Keep the people there who can stop the country from being over-run yet again, sending it right back to the hellhole it once was
Now, stay with me, because I know you want us all to believe it's still the hellhole it once was, but there will be no exit strategy given anytime soon.
I know you're smarter than all the rest of the people in the room, Dex, but you'll have to explain to us first why we would set up an exit strategy that tells the people (you know, those wanting to kill anyone
INCLUDING THE WOMEN AND CHILDREN OF THEIR COUNTRY in order to get wingnut sympathizers to pressure everyone into leaving - you call them insurgents all you want, they're properly named terrorists) how long they have to disappear before we leave and they can come back out and undo all the work we did. That's the problem with your idea. If I tell you I'm not going to punch you in the face again if you stop fighting, and that I'll turn my back on you in 10 minutes, if you have even less than half a brain in your body, you'll stop fighting and wait the 10 minutes until I turn my back (hide out and stop killing in Iraq, since I have a feeling you're having a hard time following logic) and then jump me from behind and start trying to beat the hell out of me again (come out of hiding and continue car-bombing and killing Iraqi women and children, blowing up mosque's (you know, the things that make Americans evil oppressors?) in order to take back the country from the people yet again, taking away the freedoms from Iraqi's that you and I experience daily)
It's what you don't get that makes the difference, and you'll NEVER get it, because you look at the situation as if we're the problem rather than working with the Iraqi's for a solution of what to do after removing the deadly dictator and oppressive way of life they used to live. We're not trying to wipe out an "idea", we're trying to instill an idea that freedom for each Iraqi makes the country stronger as a whole, an idea that will demonstrate to their country that those who think like those you are speaking of are the problem. We're bringing a bit of Ireland to Iraq, if that makes you feel any better

We're bringing to them the concept of speaking out against government, without having to worry that they'll end up dead.
This isn't a perpetual war, it's starting with one country, and allowing the rest of the region to make up its own mind about how things are going. Seems to be working, but if you're invested in seeing America fail, you'll always look for the worst in the situation to extrapolate back into a hellhole, instead of seeing the progress being made, and the thanks being given for the opportunities that have been made.
Tell us all how many stories your unbiased media and news sources have run on the good things happening in Iraq. I'd love to hear what they've said, and what they consider a "good thing" that's happened over there. Listening to you, I get the impression that you've never heard that ANYTHING has gone well over there, but you're the one who will have to tell us what your media has said.