Mr Schiavo didn't recollect Terri's wishes to not live her life in this state until several years later, and specifically, didn't recall them until after the malpractice settlement.
Now that's the first thing someone's said that would give me pause. Do you have a reference? I have not seen that.
got to this state through what he claimed, or if foul play were involved. This isn't just a case of family and friends who believe this might be the case, there have been doctors who have examined her and do not believe her symptoms and injuries to be consistent with the story Schiavo tells.
I hadn't seen any info about doctors believing this either, and would be interested in seeing them. I did read
this page which brought up the questions, but I'd sure like to see something more "newsworthy" on it such as police reports, court reports, or doctor reports.
Since he has guardianship of her, he has also chosen to cremate the body, so any possibility of finding these things out go right in the ashcan as well.
Meh - here's one point where I do think the wishes of the family or court are reasonable even if contrary to the husband's wishes. The body can certainly be cremated after an autopsy.
It's fine to say my spouse speaks for me and I trust her to make those decisions for me should the need arise, but the possibility that someone may have that decision made for them by someone who doesn't share you and your spouse's views towards each other not only exists, but is a real enough possibility that the law should be clear in cases such as those.
See, here's where my layman non-lawyer bias shows, but I thought that pretty much *was* the law --- that the spouse had the legal right to make those decisions. IANAL .... no hyphen either!
I don't trust her husband. Enough exists for me to doubt his motives. At the very least, the judge should have reserved judgement long enough to mandate tests as to whether the man has ulterior motives, since his wife can't speak for herself now. Enough has been brought up in this case for me to question his more-than-peculiar "timing" of things throughout this case, and his actions while still married to his wife.
One thing to bear in mind however is that this isn't a new case - this is a 15 year old situation, and at least a 7(?) year old case as far as the courts are concerned. Wasn't one of the judge's perspectives that there wasn't anything being brought up that hadn't already been investigated and determined before?
I guess I need to see more of what the allegations about her husband are to come to negative conclusion about him -- I'm looking, but so far what I've seen hasn't really told me much about him to draw a conclusion one way or another. If he was abusing her, and that's verified and not hearsay, then all bets are off on his speaking for his wife. If she was bruised, and talking about divorce, as
this page says, then no, I don't think his word should be trusted or taken. However, I would like to see it from something more official than that page before I believe it. Even the page itself brings up the strong emotions in the case that must be considered when weighing what you hear. The page mentions several fractures found later in her body, but no sign of trauma when she was admitted to the hospital. Either they were old and healed, or inflicted during therapy. There are apparently no police reports of abuse in the marriage(?)... The page goes on, and what it claims is pretty damning for the husband, but the page gives no references to where they came up with their details.
If he is indeed a snake, then let her parents care for her and make those decisions - in that case, they would indeed then be the most qualified. However, my position on spousal rights to speak for a spouse don't change, even if we conclude they don't apply in this case.
--- saint