Yes, you're under the impression that there is a law that makes it "a CRIME for the mom to be listening to a conversation of her daughter". That is what you've stated. Read it again. That is NOT a factually true statement.
Au contraire. Your own words will also be used against you in a court of discussion.
The law:
Washington passed a law making it a crime for any person to intercept a private conversation. And a second provision saying that any evidence gathered shall not be admissible in court.
Your view of that law:
The law that they're referring to is a WIRETAP LAW. It (like so many other state wiretap laws) makes it illegal for a 3rd party to listen in on anybody else's conversation without their knowledge.
Mom (3rd party) is listening in on daughter's (anybody else's) conversation without daughter's knowledge.
By your interpretation of the law:
It (like so many other state wiretap laws) makes it illegal
Doing something illegal is called a crime.
Therefore, if mom listens in on daughter's conversation without daughter's knowledge, mom is committing a crime, exactly as it is laid out in the law.
My mom listened to her daughter have a conversation just today, and guess what, it's NOT a crime.
If she is living in Washington, it is. It very well just may be a crime in your state too.
The law is regarding monitoring someone's private conversation. It relates to bugging someone's house, their phone, sending someone in with a recorder taped to their body. If mom is picking up the phone, listening to the daughter's conversation, that is covered under the law. Read the transcript again. The lawyer even goes so far as to distinguish between putting your ear to the door, and having your phone call monitored - LISTENED IN ON.
It's against the law, a crime. The lawyer makes a point of saying he's never seen anyone prosecuted for it, but there's a reason something's called a precedent. Just because someone isn't prosecuted for something doesn't mean it isn't a crime. I've gotten warning tickets for speeding. Does that mean I wasn't breaking the law? Not at all. It means I wasn't prosecuted for breaking a law. It was still a crime.
Sure, if you ROB the bank to get the money it's a crime. But simply leaving the bank with money is NOT a crime and it'd be moronic to run around saying "They're making it a CRIME to leave the bank with money in your pocket!!!!"
Poor example. If I KNOWINGLY take money above and beyond the amount I wished to withdraw from my account, it IS a crime. Maybe you aren't the mastermind, but you'll certainly be charged as an accomplice, should they decide to call the cops.
Try it. You'll see how your example works.
In this case, mom KNOWINGLY listened in on a 3rd party's conversation.
Your very own words defined exactly how it's looked at. You seem to dislike your standard being applied to yourself in the same manner you wish to judge others. I've addressed your standard, which I see applies to the finer definition you've put forth since.
Clearly I'm just from a different planet than so many other people here. In my world it's okay to sometimes raise your voice, it's not okay to punch your kid in the mouth, nobody ever had to be taken behind the shed to be disciplined and nobody ever had to take any doors off the hinges to make a point about privacy or respect
agreed on the first, agreed on the second (which wasn't ever mentioned here, re-read the post you refer to - unless we chalk that up to distorting the truth - or is that not the standard you wish to be judged by?), your methods may differ on the third - it has nothing to do with being on another planet, the fourth speaks to your differing methods as well, although misunderstanding the use of the third could easily lead to the fourth.
I'm glad I have numerous instances of your view on the third telling me they appreciate the marked difference between my children and the usual ilk. I also LOVE the discussions afterward about how my methods of raising children they praised not 2 minutes ago are now misguided and will "eventually lead to your children rebelling against you". When it happens, I'll let you know, although when they're 30, it can hardly be called "rebelling"
