Well heres the update:
After talking it over with the wife we decided on getting and now have a tempered glass piece
I was not so much concerned anymore about what might happen within the game that might break it, but the external factors such as friends' kids coming over and doing something stupid to the pin (like sit on it) or bang on the glass or do whatever during parties we sometimes have.
And its pretty much a guarantee that if friends do bring in their kids, they are heading straight over to the pin machine (or mame cab...but definately 1 of the 2!)
So thanks all, I got a tempered glass from an Arcade/pinball store (Game Doc in LA) for $50 (who would have though it would have been cheaper than a regular glass store and be tempered?)
Well it was time to break the old glass (the scuffed and scratched one that originally came with my pin and the non tempered one I bought recently).
In short the original tempered one was harder to break and did just what it was supposed to. Tiny pieces which either fell apart or stuck to the protective coating. Took a few decent whacks with a hammer (with the glass in a few lawn garbage bags) and it withstood those impacts and I ended up doing the initial break by dropping a brick on it with a rock underneath it! Sure enough , pretty darn strong glass!
Then it was time to do the non-tempered. It didn't break as easily as many had made it seem, perhaps 3/16" is a good trhickness for non-tempered glass if it has to be on a pin.
One whack of the hammer didn't do it (of course I didn't hit it as hard as I could and it was laying flat on concrete). But it did break significantly easier than the tempered. Glass shards in a plastic garbage bag as expected, sharp and scary looking especially compared to the tempered!
From breaking both glasses tempered is definately sronger and as just about all of you had said is a better choice for the pin machine!
BUT non-tempered I think would make it through normal gameplay with an occasional airball and should be okay. What I don't think it would hold up to are kids banging on it with whatever object they have in hand or someone dropping something heavy on it in its center...
Anyways the thought of kids getting hurt on my pinball is a little to much for me to want to worry about during parties, when I'd rather just worry about where I left my drink last!
So once again I appreciate all the thoughts and views on the matter, and hell I'm $60 down but what the heck, I 've lost that in 5 secs. in Vegas before quite often!