Dude, I sure hate this happened to u, but thanks for the heads up on the bad business ethnics from SS... People like that really piss me off...
I got scammed once on ebay, and paypal to this day has NEVER refunded my $26... So I would take their "Buyer Protection" with a grain of salt... As it's DEFINATELY not what they claim it is...
Any way, good luck with getting your money back... I hope SS gets off of their high horse with this "stocking fee" and give u back all that's yours, and personally they should add 10% extra for your time, and bad experience...