Main > Everything Else
the story, of the worst time in my life
DrewKaree:
--- Quote from: Sephroth57 on February 13, 2005, 09:18:39 am ---
i read that about 3 times.. and i still dont get what youre takling about lol
--- End quote ---
It wouldn't let me insert it into the sentence, so I posted the attachment.....and it's in light of your most recent "things are now GOOD" post.
Here, for you, and for Grasshopper, although I think he's got issues even a repost won't fix ;D
"Given enough time (to screw itself up) and seeing the roller coaster that would put any theme park to shame that this has/is/was becoming, (i.e. the ups and downs you are taking yourself through with this facking relationship) I'm thinking you're glad this guy's (Jerry Springer) not on regular anymore (on Television, where we can all see your life go down the drain in less than a half hour) ;D
::) Stop taking your helmet off once you get inside the house ;)
Sephroth57:
thank you drew, i needed that dumbed down explanation. its way too early in the morning... only reason im awake is cause me and kristen are going out to breakfast in a few min 8)
Silver:
--- Quote from: Sephroth57 on February 13, 2005, 10:22:54 am ---yeah actually ive been wanting to go to japan for a really long time... weve talked about going together before but spending like 2-3K each isnt in either of our budgets right now.
--- End quote ---
Sounds good - you don't have to spend $$$ to go travelling. Do it on a budget - stay cheap and see some fun stuff. Makes it more interesting that way too, IMHO.
I also think half of it is seeing really different cultures in the world. It really opened up my eyes....
Good luck.
Tiger-Heli:
Sephroth57,
Glad things seem to be looking up for you. I've resisted saying anything b/c I didn't have much constuctive to share, but from an outside view, you are in way too deep here.
Let me give you an outside perspective - The thread is less than a week old. You basically said that the girl wanted some space and then I saw five posts of different statuses of the relationship from you (I tried this, she did that) - I came into this late and thought maybe this is what happened over a few weeks and then realized this was what happened between the 8th and the 9th. . .
To summarize, it was kinda like "She needed some space, so I only called her five times yesterday instead of eight." <okay, I'm exaggerating, but you get my drift. . .">
Girls want to be wanted, but they don't want you to be following them around like a puppy dog waiting on their every move. They also don't want anything in your life to be more important than them, so you really can't win.
If she says she wants time to sort things out, then try to wait AT LEAST a couple of days without calling her. (And I know that's tough to do when she's the only thing you think about, but . . .)
Anyway, glad things seem to be improving.
BTW, I think whoever gave the advice to show her this thread was a BAD suggestion. She might read it and think "Awww, he cares enough to ask all these guys about what to do. . ." but that's about the only positive outcome. She might be PISSED about you sharing all these personal details. She might think it's a sign of immaturity <not saying I do, but she might> that you weren't able to suck it up and figure it out yourself. And worse, if she feels that way, and the two of you don't work things out, she might mention this thread to any of her friends that you might be interested in (which might not be a bad thing, depending how the friend feels about it) . . .
Sephroth57:
lol yeah i get your point tiger, but its not like ive really been doing anything for her though its just like we will hang out or something, and ill analyze everything when i get home and post here cause like, its all i can think about. She has been calling me more often than i call her now, and shes home all this week from school so i will probably be seeing her a lot this week..
but yeah it seems like things are going decent, so im just gonna keep doin what im doin and see what happens..