Peale, may I inquire as to why you are so steadfast in not wanting to deviate from the example arcade power wiring diagram (the bob roberts one) but are willing to wire up all sorts of capacitors/relays elsewhere.
I'm just wondering...
I know you know there's ways of accomplishing this (bit strip/sears strip) but why it HAS to be controlled via the original switch is confusing me... why is that your requirement in this case...
You can pretty much do the same thing with a bit strip (if i understand correctly)... you would wire up the cabinet the saw way, BUT you wouldn't mount the toggle switch to turn on the AC mains... (it could still be there, but inside the cabinet... always "ON")... then run two wires from the power switch header on your mobo to a momentary contact switch (or find a momentary contact toggle switch if you are style concious) and mount it where the original power toggle switch was.... plug the pc's AC cable into the sensing part of whatever smart strip you choose... plug everything else, elsewhere on the strip... Badaboom bada bing... single turn on...
*shrug* there are fancy switching devices like those used to power on car pc/mp3 players as mentioned... I too will try and dig up a link/info for the sake of completeness...
I'm sorry if I misunderstood your requirements, Peale... but I'm not sure why you are making it harder than it needs to be... *shrug*
Good luck!
rampy
EDIT it's not quite what you need, but it's a similiar idea for car mp3 players as mentioned earlier
ebay auction for ITPS LDO Car Power Sequencer --- actually never mind... apples/oranges
EDIT2 --> If you *HAD* to go the "automagically short the mobo power switch pins" route (besides a tom and jerry-esque contraption that relies on scaring a chicken into laying an egg and coming down a chute...) I bet your EE friend could make a very simple circuit that when the ATX powersupply kicks on because mains are applied to it... could create some sort of 1 time pulse/latching switch thingie... it's been 10 years since I took electronics... but there's gotta be a simple way to do what you are asking if you have to go that route... the capacitor trick seems pretty clever, but i wonder if there's a catch.