Wow what a starter project thread.
Who needs soap operas when you have BYOAC?
To the original poster:
Take what we say with a grain of salt. We are all pretty nice guys on here and we have a lot of knowledge to share.
Our suggestions may be kinda out there, and some of us are sensitive to what we think should be done on a project.
But in the end, we all know that you should do whats best for you, your skills, and your situation.
Now to the rest of us:
Lets take it easy on new people. Give them time to soak in how we are before thrashing too bad.
And I agree with others, a man and his relationship with his wife is or at least should be, a no-go zone area for us, especially with newbies.
Just be nice. And lets have fun with a very little amount of drama.
And thanks for not running me off in my infancy on here.
(Putting soap box back up)