Joy to key works perfectly!!!!
All i had to do was make a profile called "Exit Emulator" then i added the emu names and thier paths then assigned my 2nd player joystick left to alt and to F4, Then i made a shortcut for it and threw that into my startup folder. Now when i add power my PC starts up boots windows then starts mala and Joy to Key. Any time i want to quit a game i can now hit the J2 stick left and i dont have to change any of the emus controls setups.