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Malenko:
--- Quote from: ChanceKJ on October 07, 2015, 01:34:56 pm ---Really this is the only time i'm going to bother even stooping to your low level of internet trolling by addressing you directly Malenko.
Mal, your interwebs drama bores me. And i'm going to stop here before you think it, or you, actually matters one bit to me.
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I'm more indifferent to you than anything else. You PM'ed me back when the UAC thing happened, and I was cordial with you.
You have an affinity for the aircraft carrier design, and I dislike it. Me disliking it and being vocal about it seems to rub you the wrong way. You think its the bee's knees and that's fine, but you dont want anyone to dissuade these new people from remaking the same panel and that's not fine. I think there's a pretty good reason only new members are copying the design. I don't troll you . Ive never said anything derogatory about you or your build quality, just talked about that ---smurfy--- CP design that isn't even yours. Going forward I'll be sure to no bother replying to you. I do applaud the completely different tone you have on here as opposed to instagram :cheers:
I am sorry I am not nearly as articulate in my retorts as other people are. Vigo hit the nail on the head and I feel the same way. Maybe 15 years on these boards is too many. If Chad can quit anybody can.
yotsuya:
--- Quote from: Malenko on October 07, 2015, 02:32:06 pm ---I am sorry I am not nearly as articulate in my retorts as other people are. Vigo hit the nail on the head and I feel the same way. Maybe 15 years on these boards is too many. If Chad can quit anybody can.
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I thought the NFL suspended Chaddles for Deflategate?
harveybirdman:
Although I'm not a fan of the Flynn's panel and probably one of the snide comments group, I would like to point out that nobody was posting in Chance's thread telling him that Flynn's sucked at the time. Heck some of the posters that I admire the most were encouraging Chance throughout the process.
I didn't post in his Flynn's thread because it wasn't really my thing and I didn't have anything to add. I do post in some of his others though and Chance, we need an Ultimate DK update.
I understand what Vigo said and find myself struggling with similar emotions.
However I also like Mal and PBJ and Nep (though he's since left the forum) a TON because of their willingness to say what I'm sometimes too afraid to.
I honestly don't understand how people let their comments get under their skin. Heck Mal checked me on comments I made about four player panels being stupid and I didn't feel the need to let that disagreement fester. I guess I think perhaps people should realize that Malenko gotta Malenko; pbj gotta pbj; and xiaou2 gotta xiaou2; and accept that they make things a bit more colorful and interesting around here.
Certainly like having this discussion when things have been SUPER slow on the forums of late.
Where the heck is Ond? LeChuck? We need some more builds going on here in project announcements from the big timers.
Keep posting Chance, I like to read about your shenanigans and will tolerate your silly code names. I would like to see what your friend Cody does with that Dangar cab as well.
ChanceKJ:
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Xiaou2:
There are many here whom post mostly just to gain attention to themselves.
They think their snarky attitude loaded comments, and obvious passive aggression, are perfectly peachy and acceptable.
Its not about constructive criticism with certain people here. For these people... its "Do it my way... or Ill throw rocks at you and laugh".
There is virtually no scale to the responses. If you are agreeing with them and their ideas and ways.. they Love-Bomb you, and you are their best buds. If you have even a slight difference in perspective... you are considered to be disrespecting them, hating on them... and are attacked with the knife. This Love to Hate switch, can turn on a dime.. in a mere sentence. Even if you were so called "Friends", for many many years. These people really do not have actual friendships. Just people they hang out with for "Supply" (attention), and manipulation.
They will even go so far... as to gather up all of their Love-Bombed 'Friends'.. to attack you in planned and concerted efforts. Forming pile-on's.. until either the posts are deleted.. and or the person is enraged enough to vanish. (or conform to "play-ball" )
This is classic Malignant Narcissism, and possibly a touch of Bi-Polarism in action. Malignant Narcissist usually are Psychopathic. They do not have any real Empathy or care for anyone. They consider others as an extension of themselves. If you present weakness.. it is attacked with fierce hate... because it reminds them of their own weak internals. This is why one of these posters has to put me on Ignore... because he cant handle being called out and shown how weak he really is. Its also part of the ego-driven public image hes trying to project and maintain.
You attack this false image.. and its like attacking them personally on a physical level. Some go so far as to consider your words as a form of lethal attack. You are killing their carefully constructed lies... destroying them from the inside. Some will retaliate in extreme ways... such as causing someone to lose their job, or even to Kill that person.
They are very calculating. They will use wording that is vague... so you cant quite fully call them out on a lot of what they say.. and so they can worm their way out of their ugly posted attitudes and abuses. They will even go so far as to think up these things in advance. Planning them in great detail. Sometimes even getting others to play various roles in the plans execution. (knowingly, knowing partially, and or not knowing at all)
It seems crazy to the Avg. joe... but this is mental illness. They do not operate, think, nor behave in a rational and logical way. Until you know what motivates them... and what their traits do... you can easily be the victim in their games... or be party to helping them with their games.
Think about it... What kind of SANE / Rational person... goes online and spends hours, and hundreds of often short, but potently negative, passive aggressive posts... on a daily basis?
Its one thing to say... "You may want to reconsider Angling your sticks... due to this reason". (And no offense should be taken from a person not agreeing or using your advice) Its a completely different thing to say "Nice Air-Strip" to a control panel submission. If you really felt there was a way to reduce some space... you could easily suggest it in a positive way such as: "If you swapped this controller to this position... you can shave about 6 inches off you CP". But instead... you just get the typical "Drive-By" "Slap in the face" "Passive Aggressive" comment.. Usually followed by the Users reaction (supply), and then the volley of further Supply. (Supply = Attention.. and to these "Black-Holes" ... negative attention is just as good as positive attention)
IMO... its time to start calling their play out every time they do them, and shutting them down. Effectively, you take their game away... and not allow it to continue. They then have no real choice.. but to either play nicer... or to have to be in Time-Out.
This isnt about Censorship. Its about creating a far more positive environment... rather than a dreadful negative and hostile place.
If the rotten cancer is not cut out... it grows and multiplies. It also attracts others whom operate the same... and again.. makes things even worse.
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