The new design looks cool, but still tight. The space looks smaller too, and different in size with each drawing.
I'm not sure now what you're shooting for. This seems a bit off the mark from what I thought you meant by 'family friendly' in the original post, but definitely would now discourage napping and reading in couches.
Think about how a night would play out in the space as is. Would a bartender be stuck if someone's playing Ice Cold Beer? Would people be able to hear the TV over the games and skeeball thunder? Will guests become bored of the same games after several visits? Will you plan birthday parties for the kids, and if so will the cake, snacks etc be served in another room or here? If here, do you have space? Will the noise of the arcade drive away people that might otherwise enjoy sitting at the bar?
Again, its a nice design for an arcade, but I'm not sure if that's what you were shooting for. I'm curious to know if this is what you're wife agreed to also...I have a feeling that she was onboard thinking there'd be a theater area and a place for her and kids to hang out in too.