There is Visual Pinall which is in 2.5d and Future Pinball out here and both is excellent and think both can been used each way.
Personal I do only use Future Pinball, which is just a simulator and have nothing to due with a emulator.... The graphics is also more heavy and require a fast graphicscard.
for Visual Pinall, this is still a emulator, but pinmame is a emulator that emulate the backlite emulation, which can been in the gray area.
EDITED SOME TEXT OUT (no need to ads any of my apps here I think, which swas about a table unzipper, which is no reason to do that here).