note there is a difference between 19200 and 1920. I am not sure that the 24x8 with a rs232 interface will work as low as 1920.
I gave those settings as they are known to work, and work with mine. If you enter the mode command with the settings as above, does it report the baud as 1920 or 19200? If it stays as 1920 it sounds like there might be a problem.
Could you elaborate how you connecting the LCD, what cable, what OS etc. Some of these 24x8 LCD's come with a mini daughter board plugged in the back with just 4 or 5 pins on it (+5v, ground, send, recieve..). IF you are using Win XP you can get away with only wiring the send and recieve to a comm cable, I think earlier versions of windows may need the various "Send ready" lines to activated to work. The thread I linked to above has info on some of this I think, although you may have to search for it.
Slider - yes its contrast. When powered, if you move it all the way to the right the whole display should fill with solid dark rectangles. This dark, and you can't see any text when you send it but you know its powered. I would suggest moving to the right fully, then move to the left and stop just when the rectangles don't appear obvious. This will let you see the text.
If you do not get a display full of dark rectangles with just the power attached and the slider to the right fully, I would suggest you are not powering it correctly.