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Ed_McCarron:
So why lie?


--- Quote ---So we leave the park and the whole way home my son is asking me why the girl was mean to him and didn't want to play
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--- Quote ---Because shes female, son.  Get used to it.
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SithMaster:

--- Quote from: Ed_McCarron on August 10, 2008, 07:32:19 pm ---So why lie?


--- Quote ---So we leave the park and the whole way home my son is asking me why the girl was mean to him and didn't want to play
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--- Quote ---Because shes female, son.  Get used to it.
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This is true.


--- Quote from: JackTucky on August 10, 2008, 07:12:47 pm ---Lying to kids to protect them from the truth is a bad idea IMO, but telling a young child someone hates them because they are black, well, that's a big enchilada. 

At some point your kid has to know people hate.  Figuring out when is the big question.



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Just say that the girl doesn't like you because her father is a bad influence on her.


--- Quote from: myntik1 on August 10, 2008, 03:32:39 pm ---I guess I didn't expect someone with those beliefs would be living in my neighborhood.

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Well as long as your son isn't rude towards her perhaps in time she will learn that her father is full of lies.

Malenko:
I'm a cracker white; all my nephews are hybrids mixed; anytime anything like that has happened I tell them that it's easier to hate then anything else and that they should worry more about the important things in life.

Ummon:
Actually, you don't know why she was mean. And it doesn't matter. I suggest telling your boy that if someone's mean, then stay away from them. If they corner you, kick 'em down and keep 'em down. I also suggest, if another kid's parents can't keep reign of them (/teach them ignorance), for you to tell the kid to go and play by themself. If the father has a problem with that, the police can be very handy. If he  doesn't like that and corners you, kick him down, and keep him down. (If it's a female parent, slightly different physical effort is required.)

AtomSmasher:

--- Quote from: Ummon on August 10, 2008, 10:39:11 pm ---If they corner you, kick 'em down and keep 'em down.

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I think someones been playing too many violent video games   :P

(for those who don't know, it's a reference to another thread)

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