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TheShanMan:

--- Quote from: efjayel on June 28, 2008, 03:24:01 pm ---I happen to be brutally honest. It's the way my father raised me since he was the same way. And while my comment came off as being a "jerk," like I said before, that wasn't my intention. But apparently that's how everyone saw it.

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If you want to be brutally honest without regard to how people will interpret it, then lots of people will think you're a jerk. Sometimes how you come across is more important than what your intentions are. It seems that you should think about that more often before you say something.
Hoopz:

--- Quote from: efjayel on June 22, 2008, 03:32:03 pm ---I wasn't trying to put her down. I was just making a comment on something I noticed. Apparently people here are too sensitive.

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--- Quote from: efjayel on June 22, 2008, 05:10:10 pm ---But my apologies to that lady if she feels insulted.

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When someone says "if I offended you" or "if you feel insulted" when trying to apologize, it means they don't understand what they did/said was wrong.  That's not an apology.  It's ---That which is odiferous and causeth plants to grow--- wrapped in foreskin.

Just because you were raised to be honest, it doesn't mean you don't have a responsibility to be polite.  That's why Saint said you were rude and were lacking in tact.  Intent doesn't matter, reality does.  Tact is the ability to be honest and polite at the same time.  I strongly suggest you learn how to do that for your own sake.

Don't ---smurfette--- about the search function and say it doesn't work.  You're too ---smurfing--- lazy to even use Google for certain things (i.e. asking wtf Digg was).  Having read some of your moronic postings on other message boards and seeing why you got banned, I honestly hope you can become a contributing member of this community.



fjl:

--- Quote from: Hoopz on June 28, 2008, 05:28:22 pm ---
--- Quote from: efjayel on June 22, 2008, 03:32:03 pm ---I wasn't trying to put her down. I was just making a comment on something I noticed. Apparently people here are too sensitive.

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--- Quote from: efjayel on June 22, 2008, 05:10:10 pm ---But my apologies to that lady if she feels insulted.

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When someone says "if I offended you" or "if you feel insulted" when trying to apologize, it means they don't understand what they did/said was wrong.  That's not an apology.  It's ---smurf-poop--- wrapped in foreskin.

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I guess you're a psychologist now... Well that's your take on it. It's not mine.


--- Quote ---Just because you were raised to be honest, it doesn't mean you don't have a responsibility to be polite.  That's why Saint said you were rude and were lacking in tact.  Intent doesn't matter, reality does.  Tact is the ability to be honest and polite at the same time.  I strongly suggest you learn how to do that for your own sake.

Don't ---smurf--- about the search function and say it doesn't work.  You're too ---smurfing--- lazy to even use Google for certain things (i.e. asking wtf Digg was).  Having read some of your moronic postings on other message boards and seeing why you got banned, I honestly hope you can become a contributing member of this community.

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I remember the Digg thing. I didn't know it was such a crime to ask a simple question like "wtf is Digg?" and that I am expected to google everything before asking a simple question.
leapinlew:

--- Quote from: efjayel on June 28, 2008, 11:09:27 pm ---I remember the Digg thing. I didn't know it was such a crime to ask a simple question like "wtf is Digg?" and that I am expected to google everything before asking a simple question.

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You really should learn to research things before asking them on a forum. If this forum was full of people asking "simple questions" it would not be a friendly forum to visit. It's just good advice dude.

As for the comments you said in this thread, you should just apologize, learn from it, and move on. It's not acceptable behavior. I've said things and had to take them back. It's very difficult to try and defend a position as weak as the one your in.
pinballwizard79:
1. The lady is hot

2. Acting requires multiple expressions....not just Paris Hilton poses.

3. I love lamp
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