Ok... well, welcome.
This type of topic HAS been covered numerous times. But, since you are new here a little slack is always nice.
FIRST, we need to determine what monitor you have in the machine. Take a picture of the monitor, but most Golden Tee's have the same monitor. I don't know what it is off hand, but some of these other guys will know.
The Jamma wiring refers to the gameboard/monitor pinout. The purpose is that you could buy another Jamma game, plug it into the same connector and it would have the same power/gameboard/button/joystick/monitor pinouts. Since you don't have a Jamma harness you can just use an 'ipac' or 'keywiz' or another encoder to handle your game inputs (buttons and joysticks).
Once you know what monitor you have, you will know the pinout "R,G,B, and Sync" of the monitor and you will use the 'Ultimarc' website to connect this to the correct pinout of the 'arcadevga' cable from the computer.
http://www.ultimarc.com/monfaq.html#monitorcableThat shows how to make your own cable to connect to your monitor.
First things first, determine what type of monitor you have and then find the correct pinout for that monitor.