I guess we can both agree on this much... We both have sympathy (or lack thereof) - just for different sets of people.
I have sympathy for the people who try really hard to find a deal only to watch it get pulled away. You seem to be sympathetic with people you believe couldn't find parts without your help.
You have no sympathy for people like me who, despite their best efforts to find a deal, get out-bid. I have no sympathy for people who can't handle this hobby on their own despite all the help and support they're given on these boards. (Personally, I think telling a person what to get should be enough. Telling them when and where to get it is more than necesarry. EDIT: If it's a retail site, that's different. There's enough to go around. But on Ebay, there's only 1 winner, and a whole lot of losers.)
Agreed?
On that note, I'm all about helping people here. I've been a member for years, and I've made alot of contributions. However, I know that giving one person a lead on an auction is going to hurt someone else. The chances that the person I hurt being from this board are very high. It's just not productive the way I see it. If one person wins at the expense of another, it's not exactly good for the community at large. If only one person can win it, why not just let SOMEONE get a good deal on it rather than making people battle it out? Do you see what I'm saying?
And you better believe I'll be PO'ed if someone posts something I'm bidding on. And I'll be even madder if someone else here wins it away from me. (That's just a little heads up.) I live in north TX and keep a close watch on everything on Ebay happening around me. Now I'm not going to be upset just because someone else wins something I wanted. That's how Ebay works. But if I were to find out is was because of a lead here... oooohhh.... I dunno...
It's not like I can do anything about it except be mad, but if it happens to alot of people you're gonna breed anger. It's evident from the poll that MOST people would rather not see their watch lists posted for the world to see. So, if nothing else, would it be so bad to follow the wishes of the people that are here to support the community?