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My Mom's Estate----Attorney problems
Arcadiac:
Thanks for the reply Lilwolf, I really do appreciate it, but those calls just won't be happening, I'm just not there. Not just by my choice but by theirs also. On my part too many totally despicable, unforgivable actions on their parts before and after Mom's death.
The day my Mom died and I told my bro that I was on my way up there, he told me that there was no point, that I really wasn't needed. I told him that it wasn't his call to make, that she was my Mom too and that I would be on my way. He asked me after arriving if there was any way he could "divorce" me as a brother. My niece and my cousin heard that and were flabbergasted.
I sat in the car, speechless. And seeing him a day or two later he dismissed me as though I weren't even there.
And my sis, upon the realization that no one trusted her to administer Mom's estate because of her past greed and thievery, shut me out too.
I wish things were different sometimes but that's the way it is
So I'm done. They got their "divorce". Life is too short to hang around abusive, nasty people, relatives or not. Moving on is a good thing. I deserve better.
I'll cherish the family that I have left and the "family" that I choose, my friends, and it will be OK, really it already is.
I will share the photos etc. with anyone in my family who really care about Mom and our family and let the others be where they need to be.
So I'll get started on my will, I'm not married and have only got 1 son, but seeing as he is disabled I could foresee someone trying to take advantage of the situation if I died without the will.
Thanks all for looking in, hope things are well with you, I'm just glad this day is almost over, time to move on.
ARCADIAC!