+R and -R are competing formats obviously. They both have pros and cons, and it really does come down to personal preference for the most part, and compatibility issues with your personal equipment.
For one thing, +Rs do NOT destroy lasers... they do not hurt lasers, alter them, set them on fire, or turn them into crazy Republicans
The problem is that + and - really are two different types of media, just set in the same physical disc type. It's much harder (as a rule) for +R discs to be read by standalone players and game consoles, especially older equipment. +Rs will be read fine by most PC DVD-Rom drives however. One main reason for this is the disc's booktype setting. Newer DVD burners can alter the +R disc's booktype so that it is seen as a standard DVD-ROM, as opposed to a DVD+R. This GREATLY (at least in my experience) improves compatibility. It doesn't make it 100% though.
I forget who spearheaded the +R format, but it may have been Sony (among others). It is NOT, however, "a Sony thing." Sony, Phillips, Matsushita, etc have always lead the way with new formats, but they must be accepted by the market. It's just like the partnership that includes Sony is pushing Blu-Ray discs, and another (can't recall who) is pushing for HD-DVD. They are not trying to run the market, they just feel they have the better format. In the DVD blank media arena, both of them survived (+R and -R). In the newer generation of DVDs, one or the other might kill the oppostion, or we might be having this debate in a year or two about whether we should get a Blu-Ray or HD-DVD burner.
In my experience, I prefer -R discs. They work on more standalone DVD players that I personally own, and they have worked on my PS2 and Xbox. However, with the new booktype settings, I am finding that +Rs can be just as compatible (or at the very least, the gap has been lessened).
It's been my experience that it is much more important to use QUALITY media, as opposed to + or - media. Good Taiyo Yuden, Ricoh, or Ridata discs (among others) will give you far less compatibility issues, no matter what format you use.
That's all just my .02 anyway.