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the story, of the worst time in my life
Shape D.:
dude your 20, way to young for a serious relationship.
I'd give you more advice but you stated you don't want it in your original post.
P.S. time may not heal all wounds, but the scars are at least harder to see.
Grasshopper:
This is possibly the saddest post I've read on the BYOAC board. It struck a chord with me because I've been in a slightly similar situation before so I think I know a little about what you're going through. But of course it's different for everyone.
I think the others are right. It sounds like she is trying to break up with you without upsetting you. If you try to get too heavy with her at this point you risk losing her friendship. At least if you remain friends there is a chance that the flame may be rekindled at some point in the future. Maybe this is false hope, but I can't think of a better option.
Hope it works out in the end.
Sephroth57:
i guess my post was a bit misleading, at first she said a "break". but then when i went up to talk to her she said we should "break up". so were officially not going out, but were still very close friends. she said she needs time to calm down, and possibly she can trust me and try again but shes not saying i should wait for her. she just knows that im that stubborn and i will wait, so shes not trying ot get my hopes up or lead me on but she said if we stay friends for a little bit and i let her sort things out we might be able to start over again.
one of the reasons she didnt tell me, cause we would have dumb fights about like a specific incident or something and as a guy i argue my point and im like well thats why that happened blah blah, and try to make it like im right and youre upset over nothing. so she figured i would just blow it off like that, and i see her point i did do that too much..
maybe it seems desparate, or hopeless to some people. but unless youve been there you dont understand. im not trying to get over her yet, cause to me this whole thing isnt over. 3.5 years of time cant just end like that. i feel like this isnt how its supposed to go down,and maybe im just hanging on to a thread of hope but thats all i have right now. and i refuse to believe anything else right now
Shape D.:
Ok heres the way women work. (I am generalizing I understand not all women are like this but most I have delt with are?
1) the more you want to spend time with them the less they care, stop haning out with her and don't answer her phone calls for a week. I bet she'll act differently.
2) women want something they cant have. become unavailable to her much like number 1.
3) never give in, its a sign of weakness. and they'll remember it forever.
4) dont be rude about avoiding her, If she somehow gets ahold of you just tell her youv'e been busy. (and dont elaborate on that)
I know some people will tell me this is full of crap, but don't knock it till you try it.
P.S. chicks dig skulls
Sephroth57:
i was thinking about that strategy... but its very risky =\