I am going to bite the bullet and give him negative feedback, even thought I know that he will do the same.
There is a neat trick for that. You have 90 days to leave feedback. Use your calendar and caculate the last hour or so to leave feedback. He can post a response to the feedback you left, but will have missed the window to leave retailitory feedback for you.
"SNIPING FEEDBACK" does NOT ensure you won't receive retalitory!!!!!
The 90 day thing on eBay keeping history is just the MINIMUM days an item is *guarenteed* to be reachable.
It is removed from your ebay "feedback to leave" pages and watch lists at 90 days, however, if you still can link to the auction, e.g. through the link on the negative feedback, or by typing the auction number in directly, you can ALWAYS get to the item after 90 days and anywhere up to around 120 days.
This is because eBay only removes items on a structured delete pattern when they need more server space. When there are more auctions in a time period (e.g. 90+ days after free listing day) then a lot will disappear shortly after 90 days. In the middle of summer, I often can bring up auctions in the 100-115 day range.
So don't assume you will not receive a negative back instantly as soon as he sees the feedback. The best you can do is watch other auctions within the same range disappear off of yours or other listings and then take your best shot as to when to leave and hope the link disappears the next day or so.
Of course this is all for those of you who don't want to get a retalitory. Of course I don't care and as a seller leave negs first and early and of course get the few retalitories.
Just don't want those of you to believe the 90 day feedback "snipe" urban legend.
Of course even if you get a neg, this guy should be banned shortly from ebay and others will see his retalitory as simply that.. retaliation for their bad service.