Ok you guys will get a good laugh here...
Soooo, I think I just burned out 2 ATI video cards. Once I got the correct EMU Driver loaded, I connected a VGA to S-Video converter that I use on my MiSTer without problem. Had it connected to my CRT, and *POOF smoke, good ole smell, yep burned the card. No idea how this happened, but wow. Talk about jumping in! LOLLL
Good news is I had the right driver working and vmmaker was finally happy. Then I just had to break stuff..