Well where Im from, the grunge alt-rock look paired along with the guitar playing white boys.
I wish I were a renaissance man, I definitely strive for it, but like you I tend to shy away from things I dont like. Im getting better though, and will give a thing a second or third try.
As for popularity, dont confuse that with diversity. Having a select few quality friends from different backgrounds and interests is greater than having a lot of random friends.
Anyway, Mario Odyssey comes out tomorrow, which means my SNESC is going to be collecting dust for a little while.