Having a laugh about disabled person who actually IS lonely is a bit inappropriate, don't you think? If you do not have anything constructive to write on the subject don't write at all.
To be fair, you've been a bit of a ---tallywhacker--- about things. I haven't seen any mention about your disability or your being lonely (for which you do have my sympathies), but if I had, then yeah, pbj's remarks would be inappropriate. But, then again, pbj gonna pbj, so no surprises there.
FWIW, I dig when people rip things apart and do the quantitative analysis. But if you are going to slag and play smarter than everybody else, best to do it like kowal or Tiger-Heli ... or even that KevSteele guy (although I hear he's off worrying about apostrophes and stuff). More facts than conclusions works better with this crowd.
There's always someone smarter than you are and the people who objected to your methods weren't wrong in doing so.