It's a weird issue. I'd love to hear if it ever gets sorted. I believe all a stripper does is pull the pulses, so to mux it back you could just try adding the two lines back together (mb with a diode from ground pointing to the signal, if you want)
For the PC, I breadboard out a whole load of stuff. You can just add small caps and resistors (for H-sync line, anything from 1K down, for Vsync line, anything from 3.3K down, in my experience) and see what happens. Try to keep at least one resistor *between* the V- and H-sync lines, so they can't feed one another directly. No way those cards won't be buffered, but best to be sure.
You can start by googling all all the sync combiners you can and seeing what comes up, starting with eviltim's on this page -
http://members.optusnet.com.au/eviltim/vga2arc/vga2arc.htm. A lot of them will be for other devices, TTL level stuff, old SUN Microsystem monitors, etc. But it's worth a look.
My preferred circuit for my older PVM's is a 1K resistor on the H-sync line, and a 3.3K resistor on the V-Sync line, then combine the two. I find that with a lower value on the vertical line, the flicker comes back pretty hard.