Just tossed my wife out of the house

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pbj:
So, any photographs you'd like to share with the forum?

SNAAKE:
oven mitts throwing is serious bizness. be careful out there bruh :dizzy:

Xiaou2:

--- Quote from: eds1275 on April 10, 2016, 11:13:55 pm ---Not literally. But told her not to come back. There is no back story. About a year ago she woke up, looked over at me and said "I don't love you any more, and it's over." Since then I have been doing my best to fix stuff but she just isn't receptive. We never had any problems in our relationship that couldn't be solved in an afternoon. She went on some anti depressants previously and have been on them ever since, and after research and talking to people at work (in a hospital) many people myself included believe that they are what causes her to have no feelings about anything.

Anyways lately there has been pressure to sell the house and divide the winnings. She threatened to call the cops on me if I was ever "violent" again. I threw some oven mitts across the kitchen.

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Sorry to hear.

However, there is always many sides to a story... and while your have your ideas about things.. she may have quite a different perspective on things. Many people keep their true feeling inside of them... and play good at hiding things. This lack of communication, can be their own fault.. but it can also because of failed attempts in the past... arguments, verbal abuses.. both present and or in the distant past. (Im not implementing that you did)

Often when someone says this, it can mean that they have found that they are in fact.. in love with someone else. Or at least, have been seeing someone else on the side, that they feel may be a better partner. Else why say it? If they were on the fence about things... they could have tried to repair or resolve the issues.

Im guessing her statement of "Violence" was more out of fear of what could be... and the tone, volume, and or language used .. that came from you, in such moments. Some people are more Auditory in nature... and so these things effect them more than someone who is more visual, for example.

The hardest part, is that you might never really discover the real reasons. Not everyone is kind enough to try to deliver such messages.

Theoretically speaking... While its possible meds could be partially to blame for the divide, ... its also possible that depression was the cause of her sticking around longer than she really wanted. Again, not trying to point any fingers. Meds can alter a persons feelings.. but can they really alter and destroy a longstanding Loving relationship? Im having a bit of a hard time with that concept...

My sympathies, and best regards

Le Chuck:
That sucks and I'm sorry. I hate that you've been going through this. You're good people bro.

fablog:
Eds1275, good luck with your new life. We know all it's a very hard moment and all will be better after.... But, it's still hard!!! So, good luck man!

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