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| dkersten:
I could walk into a bank, walk behind the teller desk and help myself to some cash while fully aware of the cameras and watching others do the same, but just because I was capable of doing it, it would be illegal, even if I worked there. Whether the others had permission or not is irrelevant to my situation. There is a difference between being able to do something and having permission. The note here about boundaries is one that should be heeded. You can live by the creed of "asking forgiveness is easier than asking permission" in your private life, but when dealing with a professional situation it is completely different and permission is a must. That being said, there is no further reason to beat this dead horse. The guy is down on his luck, some people showed compassion and offered advice, it wasn't taken in that spirit, and that is probably part of the reason things got to where they are. Everyone can have bad luck, be at the wrong place at the wrong time, or just get screwed because of things totally out of your control, but as a whole, your decisions in life are what influence the results. If you can't accept that and decide to make changes, chances are it will happen over and over again. |
| CCM:
--- Quote from: dkersten on June 05, 2015, 01:24:47 pm ---Everyone can have bad luck, be at the wrong place at the wrong time, or just get screwed because of things totally out of your control, but as a whole, your decisions in life are what influence the results. If you can't accept that and decide to make changes, chances are it will happen over and over again. --- End quote --- This... Nowhere in any of Xiaou2's posts does he take even an ounce of responsibility for his own actions.... |
| lilshawn:
still, people are still people regardless if you are the boss or if you work for the boss. As tough as nails as some people can be, they can always have some compassion, whatever the circumstances. I'm sure all this mess probably could have be avoided if he had said to his boss, "Hey, I'm kinda down and out for a bit, I'm hoping to be back on track in a few weeks. you mind if i come in after hours or before shift and use the shower?" i'm sure he probably wouldn't have objected...and if he had, you'd know right? hindsight is always 20/20. |
| Zakk:
Lol. "do you know how much money a bank spends every day? It doesn't matter that I stole some, the other bank employees saw me taking some after my shift and were okay with it" |
| jonnylbluejeans:
This may sound like a ---steaming pile of meadow muffin--- post, but if I was stuck in the hood with no cash, job, healthcare, food or prospects... KLOV would be the last place I'd be. |
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