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| dkersten:
--- Quote from: spoot on June 02, 2015, 03:01:26 pm --- get professional help. I hate the fact I had too………but I’m glad I did. --- End quote --- This is the hardest thing to do for some people, myself included. It isn't a sign of weakness though, it is a shows you have the strength to do what is necessary, even if it goes against everything you believed about yourself. |
| deadmoney5:
--- Quote from: Zakk on June 02, 2015, 10:34:35 am --- --- Quote from: Xiaou2 on June 02, 2015, 01:33:42 am --- --- Quote from: Zakk on June 01, 2015, 01:21:56 pm ---Life is what you make of it, not what it makes of you. If things aren't working for you long term, time to change everything you're doing because you're doing it wrong. Again and again it's "life isn't fair", well no, it's not. But it is what it is. --- End quote --- Insensitive, uncompassionate, worthless drivel. Tell me how Im not doing it right.. because I developed severe food allergies, to Wheat, Dairy, Eggs, and possibly other stuff. (most likely GMO crud) Its quite easy to talk down to someone, and quite different to live in their shoes for a few weeks... let alone, experience the lifetime of hell they went through... and continue to go through. Ever been Robbed by someone? How about by your own family? Ever been 5yrs old.. and had a father duct-tap your hands. feet, and mouth... then start revving power tools centimeters from your head? Threatening to cut you into little pieces, dump the parts in the ocean... where the sharks would eat them... and nobody would know??? I suppose thats my fault too right?! Yup, Im doing it wrong man. You sure got my number! --- End quote --- You see...what you did there...that's what I mean. Stop blaming people for the ---smurfy--- things they did and move on. It's done, there's nothing you can do about the past, but duct tape and power tools when you're 5 have no bearing on breaking into your place of work after hours and stealing water and electricity. For the record, I would have fired you too, and yes I'm sure it would have been all my fault for not being understanding. But hey, if blaming people and lashing out works for you, then by all means keep at it. I don't plan to offer any more advice, just keep doing what you're doing. For what it's worth I meant it as honest advice. Seems like you're going down a depressing path, maybe time to try a totally new one..oh jeez, there I go again with my drivel. Best of luck. --- End quote --- This is EXACTLY more drivel...like I said. Dude needs professional help. You said one thing right.."I don't plan to offer any more advice" |
| Locke141:
--- Quote from: dkersten on June 02, 2015, 01:20:57 pm --- In the real world, workers who are unreliable don't succeed (unless they have government jobs of course). --- End quote --- All of those lazy policemen, firemen, teachers, garbagemen, custodians, and every one in or working for our armed forces. They need to get real jobs and stop doing all that stuff that makes our way of life possible. I'm honestly happy for you that you got help when you needed it. However, I'd like to point out that you did think that this kind of help was a scam before you needed it. Maybe you should hold off on lumping the millions of people who work in government jobs in to one basket. :soapbox: Other then this bit of judgmental nonsense I think you have lots of good points. Xiaou2, regardless of how or why you came to feel this way getting professional help can make a huge deference. You should workout the how to get better with a professional. If your still in NY there are lots of free resources to help people get help. In NYC it's as easy as calling 311 find out how to get it. |
| Zakk:
--- Quote from: deadmoney5 on June 02, 2015, 03:38:40 pm --- --- Quote from: Zakk on June 02, 2015, 10:34:35 am --- --- Quote from: Xiaou2 on June 02, 2015, 01:33:42 am --- --- Quote from: Zakk on June 01, 2015, 01:21:56 pm ---Life is what you make of it, not what it makes of you. If things aren't working for you long term, time to change everything you're doing because you're doing it wrong. Again and again it's "life isn't fair", well no, it's not. But it is what it is. --- End quote --- Insensitive, uncompassionate, worthless drivel. Tell me how Im not doing it right.. because I developed severe food allergies, to Wheat, Dairy, Eggs, and possibly other stuff. (most likely GMO crud) Its quite easy to talk down to someone, and quite different to live in their shoes for a few weeks... let alone, experience the lifetime of hell they went through... and continue to go through. Ever been Robbed by someone? How about by your own family? Ever been 5yrs old.. and had a father duct-tap your hands. feet, and mouth... then start revving power tools centimeters from your head? Threatening to cut you into little pieces, dump the parts in the ocean... where the sharks would eat them... and nobody would know??? I suppose thats my fault too right?! Yup, Im doing it wrong man. You sure got my number! --- End quote --- You see...what you did there...that's what I mean. Stop blaming people for the ---smurfy--- things they did and move on. It's done, there's nothing you can do about the past, but duct tape and power tools when you're 5 have no bearing on breaking into your place of work after hours and stealing water and electricity. For the record, I would have fired you too, and yes I'm sure it would have been all my fault for not being understanding. But hey, if blaming people and lashing out works for you, then by all means keep at it. I don't plan to offer any more advice, just keep doing what you're doing. For what it's worth I meant it as honest advice. Seems like you're going down a depressing path, maybe time to try a totally new one..oh jeez, there I go again with my drivel. Best of luck. --- End quote --- This is EXACTLY more drivel...like I said. Dude needs professional help. You said one thing right.."I don't plan to offer any more advice" --- End quote --- Lol, no worries monkey, I'm done. You guys hug it out and tell each other how unfair life is. :laugh2: |
| dkersten:
--- Quote from: Locke141 on June 02, 2015, 04:32:37 pm --- --- Quote from: dkersten on June 02, 2015, 01:20:57 pm --- In the real world, workers who are unreliable don't succeed (unless they have government jobs of course). --- End quote --- All of those lazy policemen, firemen, teachers, garbagemen, custodians, and every one in or working for our armed forces. They need to get real jobs and stop doing all that stuff that makes our way of life possible. I'm honestly happy for you that you got help when you needed it. However, I'd like to point out that you did think that this kind of help was a scam before you needed it. Maybe you should hold off on lumping the millions of people who work in government jobs in to one basket. :soapbox: Other then this bit of judgmental nonsense I think you have lots of good points. --- End quote --- Whoa.. wtf... ?? I never said all government employees were lazy or unreliable, just that when there is an unreliable employee, the government will keep them even if they aren't doing a single thing to earn their wages where a regular employer would be doing everything they could to get rid of that employee. I have the utmost respect for most government workers, but it doesn't change the fact that the government will hold on to employees way, way, WAY beyond when that employee would be fired from a regular job. I have a bunch of friends who work for Social Security, and I get new stories DAILY about how inept some of these employees are and how they can't get rid of them. It's a running joke there that a government employee practically has to murder someone at work to get fired, and even then they would probably just get transferred to another department (obviously this is satire, they only transfer when the employee makes threats, I am sure they would fire them if they actually came in with a gun). Unreliable workers usually get weeded out quickly in the private sector. Even if the illness is protected under FMLA, they will get rid of you at the first opportunity. And why not? If you were paying someone out of your pocket to do a job and you couldn't count on them even showing up each day, would you keep paying them? This is just a fact of life, nothing new.. |
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