On my most recent MAME cabinet (OK, I built it several years ago) I put in some buttons to serve as pinball flippers and the like. I didn't like any of the pinball games at all. So now, I never use those buttons.
HOWEVER, I have more recently revisited this, and I think that what it is for me that I don't like is that I am looking at a screen that is the size and position for arcade games, not pinball. I also just have buttons, no plunger, no nudging, no force feedback, etc.
I REALLY want to build a full size cabinet with all of the bells and whistles some day. Problem is that I know myself too well and while I could always say "I will start out with the basics and add on later," it will never happen. I will go all out from the start and I honestly just can't afford that right now.
So I guess my question is, it depends... spoot is on the mark with "simulation" type of pinball applications. Those, in my opinion, were destined for full size cabinets. For a different experience, a lot of people love Pinball Arcade by Far Sight Studios, but it isn't available for Windows.