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Well Fed Games:
Hey, that sucks. I have no wisdom to share but I hope the best for you, and that these next few weeks in particular provide some clarity for the future.  :cheers:

drventure:
Thanks everyone.

Yeah, I'm not big on FB etc anyway, but I definitely wouldn't air dirty laundry out there (now or afterwards, that crap can bite you years later, plus, it's just not worth it). I like Scott Hanselman's thoughts on that... "Don't blog bile"  :)

In the end, it probably would have ended this way, regardless of anything I could have done, so it's probably best.

The hardest thing is seeing my daughter have to go through it. 50% here, 50% there, splitting her stuff up and not having something here or at the house. The only thing I ever wanted was to give her a stable home, and a solid family.

Didn't happen.

But I tried.

drventure:

--- Quote from: ChadTower on December 03, 2012, 07:54:35 am ---Ouch... I feel for you, man.  I'm glad to hear it's not something like "I'm going to spend the next 6 months in chemo", though.

--- End quote ---

Too true. My situation might be bad, but "there but for the grace of God....."


JMB:

--- Quote from: drventure on December 04, 2012, 11:31:58 pm ---

The hardest thing is seeing my daughter have to go through it. 50% here, 50% there, splitting her stuff up and not having something here or at the house. The only thing I ever wanted was to give her a stable home, and a solid family.

Didn't happen.

But I tried.

--- End quote ---

It is definitely the hardest part. Kids adapt though. All you can do is make it the best that you can.

DNA Dan:
Hang in there man. I have a co-worker going through a divorce right now and his wife is such an idiot. Basically rather than sit down and divide up their assets she thinks he's hiding money so got a bunch of lawyers involved. This has gone on now for over a year in lawyer fees on both sides totaling more than 35K. The costs have now exceeded the money in question. They blew through all the college money they saved for their children and now they are eating at 401ks and IRAs.

So best advice I could give you is let her have whatever she wants. If lawyers get involved you'll pay for those items ten-fold in legal fees. Hopefully she's at least cooperating with separating your assets. Good luck man.

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