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javeryh:

--- Quote from: knave on September 22, 2010, 12:08:42 pm ---If you care for your girlfriend...you will let the other girl go.

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I don't know.  There's no harm in having a female friend - just make sure your girlfriend knows her.  Be honest.  Works for me.  

Now if you really like like this girl and you are thinking of making a move and ditching your girlfriend you better be really sure she is ready to ditch her boyfriend or you will end up alone.  However, if you go this route I can guarantee it will not end well.  

Although if you are good-looking, have washboard abs and don't have a stupid haircut then do whatever you feel like doing - there will always be some honeys looking for that.  Oh, and rich too - girls like money.

Gorotsuki:
Seriously, you got 3 kids.
Get a new hobby, you've mastered skirt chasing.

Frigo:
You know, there's a million fine looking women in the world, dude. But they don't all bring you lasagna at work. Most of 'em just cheat on you.  ;)

jamesjones626:
thanks for the input guys, i know (well i think anyways, i dont want to ask or know) she aint into me that way, but she's a cool person to be around as a friend.  I've been leaning towards just lettin it go, but ive been trying to find excuses to keep it up.  my girlfriend is great, and im lucky to have her, and as far as my cowoker i never want it to be more than friends.

geomartin:
From personal experience, I'd stick with your girlfriend.  My wife had the same feelings you are now having for a co worker.  Think broken families, lost jobs, bankruptcy etc...In the end, it is like Spock said " Wanting is often better than having."  Work place fantasies tend to fall apart once real life intrudes.  It's easy for you to comiserate with each other, but once you are actually involved in each others lives and the romance is gone, watch out.

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