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How to forget someone? Emergency!!!
Matthew Anderson:
Dude !
You might as well hook back up with the girl and let her break your heart 3 or 4 more times.
This is classic logic versus emotion stuff
You KNOW in your mind this is a bad idea
BUT
You FEEL in your heart she is the one for you...
Trust me your mind is going to lose this one... it always does.. at least until you realize you can get by a day without her... then a week without her... then a month etc etc etc
But that is not going to happen as long as she wants to get in touch with you and can get in touch with you....
If it was me I would tell all my friends not to tell me that she wants to see me, and I would change my phone number... and I would get a new activity to do... for me it was cycling and Aikido
Best of luck!
Epyx:
--- Quote ---I miss the days when few people had cellphones and, because we were a minority, were more conscious of our manners.
--- End quote ---
Agreed, we got by just fine before cell phones on dates. To me its pretty rude to answer a cell phone in the following scenarios:
- a date with spouse/partner. Notice the word date...going to Ikea doesn't count, answer the phone...taking partner/spouse to the movies or dinner? Hell no...voicemail that call.
- If with a client
- If at a job interview
- In a movie theater
- Driving
NOTE: When you do answer the phone, answer it in a normal everyday voice...not the IM TALKING SO LOUD SO EVERYONE IN THE MALL CAN HEAR MY INTIMATE DETAILS VOICE ;)
Mikezilla:
Newman, like most of the guys on here have mentioned, we have all been there one way or another, myself included. The chick that sort of did the same thing to me was SUPER hot too, yeah that made it hard(haha get it?) but still, youre obviously young, and there are other chicks. The hotness wears off too if the chick acts like a female dog. Dude, is she bi-polar or something? You made it seems like she cries at the drop of a hat. No man wants to handle a girl that cries incessantly. Thats no fun at all. Like you mentioned the point before, youre trying to FORGET her, but LEARN from her. LEARN what you DONT want... LEARN what NOT to do. When this happened to me I found myself doing what some of these fellow guys mentioned. CUT HER OFF COMPLETELY. I did. One of the best things I ever did. Guys and girls arent supposed to be friends unless they are banging each other. Seriously, end of story. Why the hell is your best friends GF calling YOU? Want to know how many times my best friends GF has called me before!? ZERO.
Also, keep busy. And CUT HER OFF. Dont be friends, and dont call her, erase her number, and forget about her in the sense of wanting to be with her. Find something to focus on that keeps your mind off of her. Me, I lifted weights and played my drums. Thats my stress reliever. Do something productive, and dont do something that you guys did together cause that will just remind you of her. Not only am I a better drummer, but Im in good shape as well. *flex*
Furthermore, man up. I know thats kind of a jerky thing to say, but cmon. The idea of a real man has diminished in todays society. John Wayne is probably rolling over in his grave with all the stuff that "men" today do. Act like this chick doesnt mean anything to you. But you cant just act, you have to believe it. Sometimes you gotta be what others might think to be a "jerk", not calling back, being TOO polite etc... You dont want a girl to walk all over you, thats a sad spectacle to witness, let anone be a victim of. Chicks dig guys with confidence, and you need to be confident. There are a bunch of things you can do to bolster your confidence, but Im not going to list them here.
And I know Im probably going to get flak for it from somebody....but jesus god man dont answer the damn phone when youre on a date!!! I dont care who it is!!! Not even if your grandma fell down the stairs! Whats more important, you going snorklin for clams, or your gradmas hip!?!? :dizzy:
shateredsoul:
marry her and have her babies.. you will be a happy man :applaud:
opt2not:
In the eternal words of the Godfather of Soul, "hit it and quit". ;)
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