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How to forget someone? Emergency!!!
newman117:
--- Quote from: HanoiBoi on July 31, 2010, 11:11:38 pm ---Newman,
First, be truthful to yourself...is there any truth to the 'rumors' that she heard early on? Is this girl who called anything more than a friend, or better yet do you have feelings for this friend? If you do, girls can tell.
If there's not even a smidge of truth to the rumors and the friend is truly only that and you really, really like this girl then you need to work on her. Don't worry about the right thing or the wrong thing to say to 'get the girl', just be truthful and honest with her. (Don't do it in a letter, email or text)
Don't think she's as crazy as some people have deduced. She may have heard other rumors that she's trying to process. Good chance she's battling with what she hears versus what she feels. If what she's heard is true, she'll feel like the biggest fool for giving you a shot. If it's not and she doesn't give you a shot, she could regret it. My guess is that's her dilemma.
Put your heart on the line if you think she's worth it. If you truly believe she's the one, pursue it with truth. You've got nothing to lose. If she doesn't want to give it a try, wish her the best and move along.
And yes, I am speaking from experience. I heard rumors about a girl that I had started dating. At first I was very standoffish around her and I felt hurt and betrayed. Eventually, I confronted her with what I had heard, with details, and we discussed it in depth. We got to the bottom of it and what it came down to was jealous people saying hurtful things. If we had never talked it out, who knows how things would have turned out. I've been with that girl for 20 years now.
Best of luck to you.
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There isn't a single truth to the rumors she heard. And no, the girl who called is my best friend's girlfriend I tried to explain that to her but she didn't listen. She told me that when she heard the rumors, she cried a LOT. And I told her that it was just lies, that there were people that just wanted to hurt. I spent 1 month confronting her and after that she said that she believed me. But after the date, she kinda changed her mind about everything, making quick decisions. I called her after the date and she said to me:"I know who you really are, you're a liar, you're one of the most negative friends I have, you're nothing, etc." I didn't insult her or anything but that's good cause I think at some point she will feel really bad about the things she said. Whoa! Didn't mean to reminisce folks. Anyways I think she found someone who can put up to her craziness cause getting screamed at in a freaking restaurant while other people are eating is not a happy memory.
Funnel:
Wow this sounds like quite the story. We all experience something like this in life man. Its one of those things you have to move on.
javeryh:
If you were really in love with her you will never forget her - you will just think about her less as time goes on.
hypernova:
--- Quote from: javeryh on August 04, 2010, 06:03:17 pm ---If you were really in love with her you will never forget her - you will just think about her less as time goes on.
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For the short amount of time he was with her, it shouldn't have evolved into the deep feelings of love.
In the future, if the opportunity arises...
hit it then quit it. >:D
newman117:
Yeah emergency! She said to my friends that she wanted to talk to me about 2 days ago. Then I left my house for a weekend to stay over at my friend's house, then when I came back today my brother tells me she talked to him that she wanted to talk to me, so I talked to her and she cried a lot... she said that she missed me and told me she thought that she would never hear my voice again... and started crying again. She told me that she was having a very hard time without me... anyways she said that she'll call me in about 50 minutes. Thoughts?
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